I chose two celebrities purely for sake of illustration in ferverent hopes of providing more of an idea of attractive mature individuals. Unfortunately, I have yet to meet either actors Emma Thompson or Dianna Rigg (sp?), but from what I do know, they are both fine examples of how all of us would hope to become. Grand as both are, perhaps they can better illustrate that age is not an issue.

Again apologies to any overly weighted and wounded egos amongst the BDSM lifestylers.

The last of several multiple q's from one Cyndylu speculates that perhaps a post from everwilling was intended to lighten up the online conversation. Perhaps, but in the larger context possibly even Cyndylu can imagine the benefits of a "lights on" experience.

Lastly, kudos extended to the fair and balanced post of julise. Also, her extended and appreciated gesture, but thank you, no sympathy needed here. Plus, thanx for the new s/n!