.... i once got a charlie horse during sex somehow.. my ex was so into doing his thing he thought i was praising him thru cursing + trying to get away. i even hit him upside his head + he stil didnt get it. and the more i struggled to get away from him the worse the cramp got.. finally i rolled us over, with my good leg, so i was on top. then for payback i got off him and punched him in the jimmy. . while he was almost in tears i acted oblivious and tried to keep being sexy to him.. he didnt find the humor.. we broke up i thnk later that week and thats kinda my first step into dom-dome. all because of a strained muscle and a stupid man. .