Some peoples idea of wellcoming a new person are to try and get them to "Hook up" imediately and are sadly worded like bad pickup lines in response to an add in the "personels" section.

You are not the only one that is troubled when they see such behavior ukMasterC.

Its especially unsetteling when you visit the same person targeted for such attentions profile only to find it inundated with simular advances.

Unfortunately honest and or naive ommissions of: being new, inexperienced, or young, do tend to draw the unsavory types that prey on the unfortunate like sharks to blood in the water.