Well said Sir Oz:

In my case Sir, all i am supposed to do is "entice" and be generally aluring, so the shoe by your definition is still on the other foot, (or back on the traditional foot) whichever the case may be. If a dominant doesnt have the "brass ones" to ask to speak to me after that or order me to accompany him or her (when i am available) to a more private venue or the dungeon, it's a sure sign they eaither are not interested, or are not "strong" enough to have me for thier temporary "use", fortune favors the brave.

Alltough I know you and my owner an I agree on the "make the woman come to you approach", in real life and sometimes in chat, at least as far as sending unsoliciated pm's etc, it is certianly not the only way

In real life a dominant has many more options, and i have personally seen that the sit and make them come to you approach as a sign of indifferent confidence by a dominant as opposed to being "shy" to be very effective (its wowrked in that medium plenty of times on me)

everything from actually talking to a girl to a bold look from accross the room is game. but in real life i can see his or her face and body language. In here all we have is text, alltough i often read between the lines. (winks)

I dont purse a dominant overtly becuase it would be considered "begging" for my use, and i am not to "beg" without permission under any circumstances.

Not having been granted that permission in the lobby by a dominant worthy of respect, i ergo do not beg.

But i do follow the tenent that a kajira is to be pleasing in everyway, and a large part of that is accomplished by just "being" in a room, excluding a raw allmost maddeningly wanton sexuality that drives dominants mad with lust.

For the kajira even if silenced, must allways entice her "use"; for the eyes of men are forever upon her and men are pleased by such things.