A Question of Age.

[~faerie~]

I am a 20yr old female. Relating to people my age is near impossible. The people I keep around me are usually 5-10 years older then me, now THEY get me.. I have always been told by my parents, since a very young age, that I was years beyond my real age. It always seemed to baffle them when a 5yr old was writing poetry that was symbolic of things that maybe a 15yr old would experience.



I guess I have delt with this my entire life. I never had any friends till I was out of school. I know it can be hard at times but you will eventually "fit"<3

If you ever want to chat, since we're in the same boat, I would love to talk to you<3

*huggles*
-Rora xx

i get that alot. i tend to relate more to ppl alot older than myself. My mom always said i was an old soul. i write poetry as well

I have friends of all ages; anywhere from teenagers to folks older than my parents. We certainly relate to each other in different ways, but there is clearly something in each dynamic that is worthwhile to pursue.

As far as lovers and relationships? ALWAYS with older men, anywhere between a ten to a nearly thirty year age split. I don't consciously seek out men that age, we simply seem to click. Careers, goals, overall compatibility - it seems to work for us.

i completely agree i am 30, my Master is 60. We click on a level i had never imagined possible. older men are sooo much sexier.

My husband is 19 years older than me and a lot of people took issues with that. They mistake older for old, (you can see in my profile how geriatric He looks at 43, lol). Its not an age fetish, I am attracted to a certain mental wiring that seems to be more common in older men, but I was once or twice attracted to younger men (2 and 3 years respectfully) who had that dominant mentality already prominent.

When we had met I pegged Him to be a lot younger (one of these days I am going to find that Dorian Grey picture He keeps in the attic, rotflmao). When He told me His real age, I was worried He was going to think I am too young so for a long time I left Him under the impression that I am a lot older than I truly was (I skipped grades so that was easy).

His age was just a fact, it had nothing to do with my attraction to Him. Age is just a number, more important is the maturity/personality of the partners. People told me it was unseemly for us to be together, but to me it would have been unseemly to break up with someone I already liked so much and with whom I have so much in common for the frivolous fact of the year He was born in. Of course a word of caution - once, it may be true love; but repeatedly - cradle chaser.

I have friends of all age groups, I get along with those who are older and those in my own age bracket just as well.

alot of ppl were uncomfortable with the age gap between Him and myself as well. but i more interested in a persons character and sense of trustworthiness and honor. you predominitely find that more in older men. i have found very few men my age who even had a clue. Its sad really.

I'm the youngest of two.- My closest non online friends(excluding my Master) are within 10 years of my age (youngest non online close friend is 26 and oldest is 37- I'm 34.) - closest online friends tend to be more diverse in age. So I relate well to all ages-tends to be interests that attract with age being secondary.

Sexually it's chemistry rather than age- but my sexual partners aside from one have all been older than me- my Master is 26 years older than me and we definitely relate on *all* levels.

chemistry is awesome but the age factor does it for me as well. I never thought it would but i look at all these 20-30s guys and i just dont see past the facade. they all seem very focused on looks and not personality or character. they are great to have as friends to hang with and joke around with but there is no real depth.


i like the fact that when i am with some one older they can see the real me. because they have learned throughout their years that (as cheesy as it sounds) there is more than meets the eye.
but maybe that is just me.