
Originally Posted by
Ozme52
This belies that you aren't using the word 'punishment' in the same way as virtually everyone else in the lifestyle.
There is discipline and order to be gained from the lifestyle, which creates opportunities to make mistakes or be disobedient... and hence punishment.
If it's part of the play, and we DO play, we're not suggesting otherwise, but if is part of playing, it is not really punishment.
I spank because I enjoy it. I spank because she enjoys it. Spanking is never about punishing her for a misdeed.