Quote Originally Posted by Ragoczy View Post

I would look for someone who would give in and follow my instructions even though I was, essentially, a complete stranger. You'd be surprised at how easy it is to have this sort of interaction with someone. It can be as simple as changing their product selection at the grocery store ("No, no, that one's no good; you should try this.").

You wouldn't have spotted me based on this. I don't do that with strangers, don't defer, don't agree, nothing. While it might be a good "short-hand" for doms to test the water, you also have to understand that this is also part of the "interview" done by a violent criminal/rapist looking for a mark.

This is common behavior to see if someone is a likely victim. Considering that I wouldn't know if the individual was a dominant or a rapist looking for a target, I don't in any way engage with that.

I also am not "generally submissive" in that, I don't feel compelled to fall under the domly domly power of any male within my range who happens to give off those sparks, even if I'm attracted/drawn to them.

I might banter/flirt, but I'm not going to be averting my eyes or backing down from the challenge.