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FrozenGrapes question about online sub 09-13-2008, 02:07 PM
GrandMaster Well if you are on different... 09-13-2008, 04:35 PM
PropertyOfMasterJoey Well, as a sub, when i push... 09-13-2008, 05:01 PM
snowflake Hello FROZENGRAPES, ... 09-14-2008, 05:29 AM
FrozenGrapes Thanks for all the responses 09-15-2008, 02:23 PM
snowflake hmmm had to go out of town... 09-15-2008, 07:56 PM
orchidsoul absolutely disrespectful, but... 09-16-2008, 06:00 AM
snowflake And i agree with you .. even... 09-16-2008, 09:04 PM
PropertyOfMasterJoey sounds to me she's tryin to... 09-15-2008, 02:29 PM
FrozenGrapes how do you "top from the... 09-15-2008, 02:57 PM
snowflake i agree that is exactly what... 09-15-2008, 07:58 PM
PropertyOfMasterJoey lol you can ask anything hun.... 09-15-2008, 03:11 PM
FrozenGrapes interesting suggestions...... 09-15-2008, 10:30 PM
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    Hello FROZENGRAPES,

    GrandMaster is right .. not know either you or your sub it makes it very difficult to answer this question as i don't know where either one of your limits might be..

    i am a sub both o/l and r/l and yes online relationships can be a handful and stressful some times... But i truly think you need to find out what she wants ..What her limits are.. so you know how hard you can push..

    On the other hand .. i think she needs to know what your limits are and how much she can expect of you..

    Just like R/L you have to talk about things... know where you are at .. so no one is bored or especially disappointed.. at least that is how i feel..

    So with that being said my suggestion to you for an email is this:

    i think you should write her and inform her that she need to fill this out:

    http://www.bdsmlibrary.com/forums/showthread.php?t=9385

    She also must write you an essay on why she has disappeared..

    Demand it... and tell her that if she doesn't fill it out not only will she never find out your answers to it.. that it will be over even if she comes crawling back and set a time limit on it .. say 2 days a 48 hr period.. That the only way you will except her back is because R/L was truly taking over or she lost Internet... then you shall discuss what she could have done to correct this.. {Libraries have computers}

    i would also suggest maybe adding that if she is late with the results it will cause her an undetermined amount of lashes mattering how late she is and for what reason... but that all reasons including r/l and computer problems will not be reason to let it go but may lighten the punishment .. but it will not discard it.. As you do not like being made to wait and find it very disrespectful for her not to be here when you want her for such along time..

    She seems to want punishment this is a good way to start with an excuse to begin with..

    i will be honest i am a very demanding sub as well... without punishment i get lost... without strict rules or at least strict tasks.. i get lost.. and i am not alone.. i know this for sure as i have heard it many times from other subs..

    To some of us it a needed thing not just a play thing.. without it we become very depressed and lost... over whelmed and confused ... with a feeling of unwanted... unloved and not worth the air we breath.. {if you want further explanation please send me a message on the board} So i understand her if this is the case..

    Please make sure you have your answers filled out as well for the post i gave you .. even if she doesn't come back it will help in the next relationship you have.. and if there is another i would suggest the first task for that sub would to be filling this out so you know where you stand at the very beginning and know you are compatible and things don't go this far..

    i would also suggest you are long winded with replies during play.. just saying slap slap is not very interesting if this is how you play.. this i don't know.. but being descriptive also helps maintain a better play and more ejoyable and fufilling..

    I hope i have helped and not hindered

    Just my opinion

    hugs
    snow
    Last edited by snowflake; 09-14-2008 at 05:39 AM.
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