I actually heard from her today. She was very apologetic and said she had to go out of town with family and only today got to a computer to email me. I understand this as it has happened before but she mentioned and i do feel an appropriate punishment is nessesary for making me wait and wonder and not letting me know what is going on. regardless of the circumstances. Like i said before she has been pushing for me ot dicipline more and take more control and i feel now is a good time to step up and take the reigns.... any thoughts? doms or subs veiwpoint on this very welcome.... thanks all!!!