sounds to me she's tryin to top from the bottom. i tried that once with Master but quickly learned to never do it again. i might be wrong but it sounds like she's trying to manipulate the situatuation to get what she wants as opposed to genuinely wanting to please you. i dunno for sure or even how that would make You feel just throwin that out there.
how do you "top from the bottom"? i am still learning the terms. and how did you learn to not do that? or is that too personal a question? i do not know what is appropriate to ask here????