sounds to me she's tryin to top from the bottom. i tried that once with Master but quickly learned to never do it again. i might be wrong but it sounds like she's trying to manipulate the situatuation to get what she wants as opposed to genuinely wanting to please you. i dunno for sure or even how that would make You feel just throwin that out there.
i agree that is exactly what it sounds like and it shows disrespect towards her Dom
Just my opinion
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snow
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