Quote Originally Posted by SubmissiveDoll View Post

My question is basically this... I want to understand the mind of a sadist. I enjoy the pain, but, I would love to understand the thoughts and feelings of a Dom sadist. What about inflicting pain on your sub/slave do you enjoy?
Hiya Submissive Doll,
I have to say it is a very good question, something that I have considered myself as well. I consider myself a bit of a sadist in a sense that I do enjoy inflicting pain, and I am still wondering why I enjoy it so much .

I think everyone is raised with a sense of respecting others and a "don't do to others what you won't want to happen to yourself" To then willfully inflict pain to someone else, seems very wrong, as I would not be able to handle the things I do to my pet if people would do that to me (certainly not just take it, I would definitely hit back )

What I realised is that I love the response to certain actions. I love to see peoples reactions. And I love the fact that there are submissives willing to take it all. When I see my pet giving himself completely to me, by taking the pain, it excites me, make me respect him even more and make me feel closer to him. It is an intimicy that I have not found in a vanilla relationship.

So there you go, just my thoughts about this. I hope it makes some kind of sense.