Quote Originally Posted by Ozme52 View Post

And D/s isn't necessarily just about pain. Control v. being controlled is a huge component. My "fetish" is making women cum. I know what you might think... 'oh yeah, that's a sacrifice on her part' but when she allows me to choose how and when and how often and whenever... when she gives me her body as a playtoy... and responds like no vanilla woman I've ever met can respond, when she cums when she thinks there is nothing left within her, when she gasps in surprise as I manipulate her mind and body, when she thanks me profusely... that's why I'm in the lifestyle.

Actually I know the sacrifice on her part. I don't cum without permission, and generally only when he wants me to. It may be 10 times a day, or not for weeks. It's physically and emotionally straining. But, at the same time exciting and comforting to have someone with such control over my mind and body. Being a playtoy for my Master is one of my greatest joys. It brings me a peace that no other lifestyle or relationship could compare to.