talk to them over the phone. i have done it with three Dom/mes.

1. Turned out to be barely a man at all. He whimpered and whined and complained the whole time. I personally think he was a huge wannabe 18 year old in mommy's basement. Red Flag

2. Turned Scary real quick. Stalker like things like "I am watching you through the window right now" "I want to break in and rape you." and knowing i was scared enough to hang up...called again and said similar stuff! Even left messages about it on the machine. FINALLY i had say enough and stop calling. i am lucky He did when i put my foot down. RED FLAG!

3. Sweet, Sexy, and Incredible...someone who inspires you more in "person" than online. This is a green flag. hmmmm Mistress D'Jade to a "T"