Being gay has its ups and downs. Im gay. The only hard part is finding someone I am intrested in a relationship wise into bdsm. Everyone I met is almost 15-25 years older then me which is frustrating. There cant be much going on sexually, but I have done some role play with some pretty cool guys.
But dont let being gay get you down, I am sure there are tons of 'daddy bears' out there for u. There seem to be alot down here. I am not into alot of hair myself.