I also have an ad on collarme explaining that I am owned but have no local friends who can relate to me, I specifically say I would like to contact local subs for friendship only.

So I get a message one day from a gorean slave on behalf of her Master (not local btw) saying that they would like to befriend me...and they she goes on to mention that their hard limits are this, this and this and hopes this won't be a problem....honestly, in order to be friends it really doesn't matter to me what your hard limits are :P