All good advice. I may see him again next week. perhaps I can practice by myself until then. Vanilla sex? How Queer :P.
haha! I know- it felt funny saying it... but I do think 'vanilla' sex gets a bad wrap...
there's nothing 'vanilla' about my (and most peoples) non d/s encounters.
Don't feel bad. All good things are worth waiting for.
bad girls, bad girls....
what ya gonna do when they come for you?