I think a few keys that I've noticed in submissive women, is that they tend to be very outgoing and strong on the surface. They like to be center of attention, commanding a room. She is organized and able to multitask, family, work, pets, kids, responsibilities. I know a lot of new Doms are usually surprised to find out that I'm submissive. Then after about a year, we talk again, and their usual response is "Wow, I can't believe I never realized you were a sub."