Quote Originally Posted by emilygirl View Post
I've never been with a Domme before and Im starting to REALLY want to experience one.

Basically I want to know how you would treat a female sub, what kinds of tasks, challenges, and punishments you would offer to her. I would LOVE to share an experience with a Domme at some point and just want to know what to expect.

Thanks and hugggs
Hi Emily,

Thank you for your question. I have to be honest and say that I haven't had the opportunity yet to truly play with a female sub, so I cannot tell you from experience what to expect. But then again, every Dom/me is different and will have different preferences.

I for one, would like to see a sub that is able to take a fair bit of pain, not just in punishment, but also for my pleasure. My sub will need to have a good head and think before acting.
Specifically for a female sub, I would love to see some grace in their submission and appearance (story of O?). And I would love to put a female sub in various bondage positions, so a bit of flexibility for those positions will probably come in handy as well

My other preferences would show themselves in what a sub wears (or not) in my presence, if they have any experiences that are useful to me (cooking, cleaning, personal services), and maybe I would like to have a girl who submits to me and assist with dominating my male slave.....?

So many fantasies to try out, endless posibilites, but it could only work if there is a certain compatibility between the Domme and sub... And what I like might be something other Dommes/ subs would never dream of. So I would say to try and connect with various people, and if the communication is right, see if it works out on a more committed level as well. In that respect, it is no different than meeting up with any other person

Hope this helps you a bit