The age old question is cyber cheating.......well that is hard to say it may not be cheating physically but it is a relationship of a sort,,,the question i would ask if it is not cheating why would it need to be hidden? if you cant do it out in the open and have to keep it hidden from your partner speaks volumes...cybering is becoming more common as grounds for divorces so some think it is cheating some do not.....i would say it depends on the people involved