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Quote Originally Posted by DowntownAmber View Post
[SIZE="3"]Important diiference to note: there is "play" punishment and there is actual punishment.

In role play, you might find it fun to be "punished" for dressing in a slutty outfit, but the punishment administered is understood by both parties to be play and not a learning experience. It's simply a spicy way to lead into a cropping, spanking or humiliation play.
Bambino,
Maybe you simply aren't hard-wired to have the "play-punishment kink". I doubt anyone finds every kink erotic. If you don't find it particularly arousing, don't worry about it. It is probably one of the more common turn-ons but that doesn't mean you have to have it, too. This may be why you are questioning the logic of this activity. If it's play only......it's not supposed to be logical. Those who do like it are just looking for an excuse to play the game. They don't care if it is reasonable or fair. For goodness sakes, please don't believe you have to be like everyone else. If you don't like something, shout it to the rooftops. Be your own unitque self. Hope this helps.

Dixie