A Question of Age.

[shayna{L_D}]

Like Downtown Amber, i have friends of all ages. I can get along with someone who is very young and then i can get along great with someone older. I am 23 years of age, and dont think that age is a problem in a relationship or friendship.

I tend to mold to whomever i am speaking with, if its someone who is young and immature then i can also tend to act the same way. If its someone older and wiser then i mold to fit then. Its not that im not myself its just im very open honest and understanding.

when it comes to the issue of sex and age. There is no problem, personally in my eyes. But i have not been sexual with someone who is more then 3 years older then me. I do not think of someone older as 'wow i want to fuck them' or 'i could really submit to them'. I just cant, younger i can see submitting and be sexually with.

To make this short. I see no problem when it comes to an age thing (as long as its legal), but to me personally i could never be with someone who is considerably older then me, considerably as in 40^. I would view them to much as a mentor or expert who i am not worth to be with, just yet.

[Sea_Hunter]

As one of the oldest of the old, a few insights. Mental age is much different than life age. I see so many young subbies who are desperate for someone to understand their feelings and thoughts. Unfortunatly young Doms generally lack that ability. The problem with age is that older understanding persons have an older circle of friends and they have concerns that young people don't share. They can also (ahem) have something of an energy problem. (Thank God for ******). Perhaps the best of both worlds is the older mentor, and the younger stud.

[damyanti]

Perhaps the best of both worlds is the older mentor, and the younger stud.

That would be lovely, ...except you forget that dom or not, boys will be boys...and sooner or later such situations lead to c*ck fight, no?

[Ozme52]

As one of the oldest of the old, a few insights. Mental age is much different than life age. I see so many young subbies who are desperate for someone to understand their feelings and thoughts. Unfortunatly young Doms generally lack that ability. The problem with age is that older understanding persons have an older circle of friends and they have concerns that young people don't share. They can also (ahem) have something of an energy problem. (Thank God for ******). Perhaps the best of both worlds is the older mentor, and the younger stud.

Sea Hunter. "Bad!! Bad!!" LOL

Ladies, old mentors can be quite nice in the energy arena. We don't get "overexcited".

But I will agree that the lack of areas of overlapping 'vanilla' interests makes it more difficult, for me, to relate to the very young.

[star_sparkle]

Well i guess you older Doms havent been talking to the right young subbies *wink wink*

too bad i am taken
i certainly dont find Him with an energy problem. lol

[submissive_1]

Wow... I wish I could respond... but it's been so long since I've made friends. :\

Had two really good friends my age (21-22) in my old hometown, and several okay friends. When i graduated high school I discovered that those Okay friends weren't really friends. Then the military has moved hubby and I several times. So now I have one good friend at current location. She is my age, but it is still difficult to get along well, cause she has three kids, and I don't have any.

Not to hijack the thread, but does any one else find that is sucks when all of your friends all have young kids, and you can't go out last minute any more? Or after a certain time?