i dont feel the need to be perfect. i am just me. i always do the best i can and try to learn from my mistakes. i'm a little on the feisty and quirky side, but He likes me just fine that way. He finds me endearing and cute. That is all that matters.
There is no perfect Dominant or submissive, you just have to find the one you click with.
no one ever said it was going to be quick or easy. lol nothing worth having ever is.