yes it is extremely possible. i am the first to admit. i am a hard headed...strong willed bossy woman. Like you my mother was the same. But it has been my desire for a long time to submit...to be the submissive in my relationship. So i joined here and tried to to find what you were looking for. A Mistress or Master who would give me what i wanted...without squashing the inner me.
i kissed some toads *don't we all. And i have found someone who does in fact bring out the best in me in all ways. Someone i can be indepentant with, and yet still is strict and can become total and complete Boss in seconds. It is an incredible feeling and worth the struggle. And one day i hope to have this in person with Her...and i know it will be incredible!