Good evning-- I found your comments very interesting. I am very very new to this scene. I'm not sure I really know what I am looking for. I have long thought I would want to be dominated by a female, probably one that was a bit older. I think of being made to do things for her, even to the extent of fondling another male submissive. To be frank, Having never experienced such an actvity I don't know where I would draw the line. Its one of those cases of having a desire but not sure if the desire is strong enough.

I belive that being under the command of a lady would be an interesting and exciting experience. I would like to be bound and perhaps gagged, gagged by a pair of panties or similar such intimate garment. CBT or other punishemnt seems exciting. I have experienced a little of that and found it very stimulating I can see myself doing minial (probably not spelled right) work for her.

As I said , I am quite new to the idea of activily pursuing getting together with a dominate for either conversation and or actual experience. I am older, probably a lot older than many that will rspond to you. I am not married, I was for more than 50 years unbtil my wife died. My intersts and desires have been my fantasy since she had no interest in such actvity. I have not been "simon pure" all these years but have been very discreet. It took a great deal of inner push to respond to your message -- I hope I will at least hav a response that will tell me if this is a direction I should be exploring.