Good luck if you decide to go and meet your dom. I met my dom in r/l a couple of weeks ago. I chose the venue - a public place, had TWO safe contact calls in place one of whom was only 20 minutes away. Both safe contacts knew what time I was going to be there and also when I should be leaving and exactly where I was - ok I got told off for leaving late but I was having such a good time with him. My master made sure I was at ease all the time and did not put any pressure on me whatsoever. He also contacted my safe calls too to let them know i'd arrived safely and when I left the venue as the signal on my cell fone wasnt working. I know what a wonderful guy I have in my master now and trust him implicitly and cant wait to meet up again and will still have safe calls in place next time. Just remember if/when you do meet up with someone - safety first.