This post has irritated me on a few levels. It comes across as one of those posts which dictates "This is how BDSM is done, you are not a slave unless you do x/y/z"
I am sure it is not intended to be like this, and I know some people will find comfort and inspiration from it but there is not one way of doing anything in this 'lifestyle'.

I am a submissive to my dominant and at his feet is where I love to be, I will never be his slave because that is not what we want but that does not mean I am any less than a slave as this post suggests. Slaves are not on a pedestal above me, nor I above someone who is a 'bottom'.

I think we should stop putting people in boxes, giving the impression that one type of submission is better than another etc etc. My relationship is defined by what my dominant and I want, I won't have anyone tell me how I should and shouldn't submit to him and what rules he should or shouldn't impose on me.