Quote Originally Posted by Tufty View Post
Do us guys 'dictate' what women should wear?? I certainly don't!

For as long as I can remember, I've liked to see women in stiletto heels, especially those lovely sharp, spikey heels, but there is no way that I would expect them to wear shoes like that if they didn't want to.

Doesn't really matter to me if they wear thigh-highs with 6-inch heels, DMs or a pair of trainers - it's the person that matters most.
I have certainly been in D/s relationships where the Dominate(s) dictate what is worn and when... including heels, hose/garters, etc. So while it may not be all the time in a straight forward fashion it is required at times straight forwardly and at other times the subtle feeling that is would please someone.... And you know, us submissives are normally suckers for meeting that "subtle feeling" with those around us....