Quote Originally Posted by RiverOtter View Post
I don't get to "play" much so I'm very hesitant to post here; I'm wondering if anyone else happens to share this particular kink (one of my favorites). Leading a girl around by a leash on all fours or upright with hands bound behind them, or holding a tight lead during sex or is a huge turn on; I guess I'm just wierd that way.
I don't do the 'all fours' thing except when I have my hand wound in her hair and I'm motivated to relocate the scene to another room...

but I doubt there are many dom/mes who don't enjoy having their sub under tight control.

It's a sensation of power and humiliation, I suppose, but most people don't seem to enjoy this activity (even many who are into bdsm) and I would never ask someone to do something they weren't comfortable with. It can hurt, too; when pulling on a lead, it should be done from the front to avoid hurting one's partner.
I just think you've not seen it discussed because it's kinda ubiquitous...

I'll agree with the power sensation... and the humiliation factor depends on how it makes the sub feel... most I've known have the opposite reaction. They love the feeling of being controlled. Take them out into public that way... then embarrassment/humiliation plays a factor.

Since most people here are far more active or knowledgable than I am, I wonder what you think--should a good sub be allowed to go around unleashed?
Heheh... I'm gonna twist the question a bit.

A "good" sub is always on the leash... sometimes physical, always mental.