The Next Step in D/s

[myri_SN]

hmm, holding off on playing till kids at grandparents? that would mean when we finally get around to marriage, kids... that we will never play as my parents live 2 hours flights away in a different country and i somehow cant imagine his parents to do lots of babysitting at their age :-(

think i better ignore that whole kids thing again, for now, too scary

[bellelapine]

Congrats to you both. My Sir and i have been married since February so definitely it is an amazing and wonderful thing to wake up every day to your Master. We have a five year old, so it's on weekends that she's away or after she's in bed the real fun takes place. And you don't have to worry about noise if you have something in your mouth . Again congrats and best wishes on this new chapter of your stories.

Btw, I told my Sir the same thing....taking His last name would be the ultimate act of collaring.

[thrall]

I am so waiting for the next installment orangeblossms........*winks*

great big hugs!

[Borgs_slave]

We got married because we loved each other and wanted it to a be a legal union. I was already collared to him when we were married and decided we wanted to make our love and life together more. Being married also on the legal side helps with our life insurance, health insurance etc. I became his slave wife when we got married but I would have always been his slave no matter what. We have been married 9 years in May and the marriage did not change the fact I was always his slave, it just made it legal in the vanilla world. Marriage is a legal union, being collared is a symbolic one to me. So we made our union symbolic and legal.

Yes I know it isn't the romantic answer you wanted but I live in reality and present things that way. Good luck to both of you. I hope you have a happy and healthy life together.

[H Dean]

Crazy girl...

My energy was low and my head hurt. I was in a general funk and badly in need of sleep. My girl, who you all know as Orangeblossoms, didn't deal with it too well. In fact, she never deals with my being under the weather with any sort of sanity. Instead, she tends turn into a tazmanian devil when I am not quite up to par.

She is alive and well...today. Tomorrow...well, we shall see.

[tessa]

~settles in the comfy chair to watch what happens~

[blythe spirit]

brings popped corn and drinks over to tessa and sprawls out on comfy sofa *smiles

[tessa]

~big smiles to blythespirit for the popcorn and drink as I hand the candy jar to her~

*whispers- How menacing do you think he'll get with her? Or will he just sleep through the hissy fit and until it all blows over? Speaking of blows, maybe that'll be his choice. Floggers, canes, paddles, oh my!*

I do hope Mr. Dean's headache is better, no matter what.

[H Dean]

Well, I figured it was time for an update.

Things are going pretty well. Frankly, this is the most enjoyable relationship I have been in. She is completely off the charts, however, when it comes to being unpredictable. I can pretty much tell how most women will react to most things regarding BDSM - will she like it or won't she like it is not a problem. This is not the case with Orangeblossoms. It's a complete crap shoot as to what all she will have a positive or negative raction to. Oh, and she can change moods with the breeeze. I don't mean she is moody but that there are certain personalities that come with each mood - she can cycle through them - back and forth to a scary degree.

For example; A few nights ago she was sweet and submissive...just wanting to be pleasing. Then, in a sudden swing, she became highly agressive, pulled out her claws (literally) and removed the skin from my back. Shortly therafter, she was back to being her sweet little girl self.

I am not bored.

[blythe spirit]

~big smiles to blythespirit for the popcorn and drink as I hand the candy jar to her~

*whispers- How menacing do you think he'll get with her? Or will he just sleep through the hissy fit and until it all blows over? Speaking of blows, maybe that'll be his choice. Floggers, canes, paddles, oh my!*

I do hope Mr. Dean's headache is better, no matter what.

*giggles* Sorry, tessa, I was tired and fell asleep. *reaches for the candy* Thankies, tessa. mmmmm. So, what happened? *rubs sleep from eyes* Oh, there's Mr. Dean now.

Hmmmm. Guess he's just overlooking the hissy fit so, I didn't miss much. lol. Pah!

[cadence]

I am enjoying this thread alot!

[blythe spirit]

Then please, cadence, do pull up a comfy seat and join tessa and me for some drinks, candy and popcorn as we enjoy the further adventures of Mr. Dean and his orangeblossom.

*smiles, hands cadence a drinkie and pushes candy and popcorn towards her*

[MissElizabeth87]

I definitely want to get married to the man I'm with someday. We're not in a 24/7 relationship at all, so it's not the same thing exactly, but I do want to have that. I mean, I've had my "fantasies" of getting married just as long as I've had my fantasies of dominating and controlling a man. Why should I only attend to the sexual ones?

Congrats on your upcoming marriage!