I have never been leashed, but I have enjoyed putting my play collar and leash on a couple of others and leading them around the dungeon. My girlfriend who isn't into BDSM per se but is curious found it both exciting and humiliating to be led around by another female and having to ask to go to the restroom, etc. My male subbie friend was practically strutting to be led around by a hot redhead, and I never had to ask him to do anything. He waited on me hand and foot....*ggls* Did I mention boot licking is HOT?!