phew! im glad im not the only one, i was beginning to think i should retire gracefully ..or perhaps in my case with the blunt ramblings not so gracefully lol
it is hard though sometimes when you've posted, especially with some posts and then wonder and worry if you've maybe pissed everyone off and then later you see someones posted after you and think oh oh even when i put this OP post up i was thinking god this is such a dumb post people will think who is she to ask a question/start a thread.

oh the joys of insecurity and self-flagellation hehe