Polyamorous or just not sure?

[jeanne]

*The Ethical Slut* is also a very good book for Learning more about Poly Jeanne. It's a sort of Bible in the Poly Community, and has been around a lotta years It's also available on E-Bay quite inexpensively.

This is a good one. I don't know why I didn't mention it too...perhaps becausen the other book is brand new to me and is the primary one I'm reading right now.

When someone tells you they are Poly, it is Real Important to ask "What is Poly to you?". There are so many configurations that this is vital information to have.

Absolutely. I agree completely. Assuming you know what another person means when they say they are poly is a prime way to get hurt.