Quote Originally Posted by jeanne View Post
This is a good one. I don't know why I didn't mention it too...perhaps becausen the other book is brand new to me and is the primary one I'm reading right now.



Absolutely. I agree completely. Assuming you know what another person means when they say they are poly is a prime way to get hurt.
Just makin' sure you know about that one

Very True, though in Poly Relating, generally Everyone gets hurt in some capacity when this happens. Of course Assumptions generally do mess up something in anything they are applied to eh?

Deciding what Poly is to you, and asking what Poly is to a prospective Partner, then Choosing Partner(s) that have needs of eachother that mesh, really goes a loooooong ways towards the success of that PartnerShip. Without this exchange of information, a Poly Sexual person and a Poly Fi person (for example) can become enmeshed, when they are Truly no match at all. In Poly Choosing Partner(s) that want the same things from the Relationship works best

Respectfully~SidheWolf