As an irregular to the forums, I have to agree that there seems to be one helluva lot of kindness about. Everytime I browse through the forums, I see what BDSM should be....... a lot of tolerance, a lot of talking about O/our specialized kinks, and maybe most importantly, a lot of fun.

People come here to read the stories, yes, but they also help each other by TALKING and not FIGHTING with each other. Of all the various forums I have belonged to, this is the most stable and sane. Many other forums and their respective members tend to be too "cliquey" whereas here, everyone no matter what their status, or stage in their journey of BDSM, is made welcome and included.