Internet Disinhibition Syndrome does make people more honest about their FANTASY lives and not necessarily their real lives. I am not the same person online that I am in real life. I live in a vanilla work and play in the BDSM world. There has to be two different me's.
So, honesty is relative to who you are. Are you the DOMME online that is shy in real life? There is nothing wrong with that and it is honest to ones self. It is not dishonest because the is no mandate for full disclosure online.
And not fully disclosing is not a lie....it is the person's fantasy.
So, reader beware....