Well I asked my friend, 'What is subspace?' Here's her reply direct from IM, complete with inciteful comments from Tojo.....


She says:
that's a hard one to describe really, i think it's different for everyone
Tojo says:
i thought if anyone could describe it you could
She says:
for me it's just about totally being immersed in the role, with no reservations or questions or anything
Tojo says:
where nothing else matters?
She says:
it comes with complete trust and respect for the other person
She says:
yes, you are just in that moment, totally and completely, and you don't think about anything else at all
Tojo says:
right, yeah that's what I would have thought
She says:
yes but there are also physical things as well i believe...i remember that i couldn't even remember details afterwards because i was just so into each and every moment...now i am speaking specifically about xxxx in this regard, i don't think i have ever gotten closer with anyone else to subspace

Only the names have been changed.

Hope that helps- she's a sub who's done some stuff. Not with me yet, but maybe someday....

Tojo