well, i'm gonna pry...

you say you're new to D/s. is he, too? is this something the two of your are exploring together?

i remember an old thread - related to tasks. maybe it will help.

http://www.bdsmlibrary.com/forums/sh...ighlight=tasks

in a Master/slave relationship - maybe a written contract would help? or atleast looking them up online (google slave contracts...see what pops up) to give you some ideas.

i guess rather than ask you 8 zillion questions, i'll just answer yours. but that's just too simple!

he asks that i kiss his cock each morning. as much as i love his cock i hate kissing it in the morning. i'm not a morning sub. sometimes it leads to a forced face f*ck (which at first i completely resent but then feel completely his... but anyways - that's another thread... . 95% of the time, it's just smoochin' his cock good morning and we snuggle a little.

another morning ritual: meditate for 5 minutes. either kneeling, hands upturned on thighs or sitting, legs spread, hands upturned on thighs. nekkid of course. just clear my head, think about the day ahead, think about us.

i have an online calendar i have to keep. i'm super unorganized. it started out pretty generic. but as we've used it, i'm getting more micro-managed. he has access to it.

we have some rules. i'm chronically late so i can't be late for work. cell phone always on me. no chewing gum. no swearing (tough one for me). other stuff. if i break a rule, i have to write it on a white board. if i have 3 rules broken in a week... not good.

i'm not a big butt seckz fan so i've had a few "things to do" in order to get me over that feeling... i'll leave that up to your imagination...

other tasks i've had in past:

shower together, he gets cleaned (by me) first
when he got home, take off his shoes, rub his feet for a few minutes
3 times a week, masturbate just to point of orgasm but don't cum. wait for him to allow it.