I do not think it is that different for everybody – it seems that different people are tying to describe similar experience. After all, it does have physical basis.
The problem is – it is almost impossible to describe.
From my experience: heady, airy, calm yet intensive and very focusing. Intensity of some sensations increases dramatically while others diminish to insignificance. For example I can take more pain (and it sensation changes) but too much pain will snap me out of it.
As to that article – I do not know if it is true that females go ‘under; (or ‘over’ or ‘up’) much deeper and more fully than males … but my self awareness rarely drops to zero. Certainly not to a point where I would ‘happily allow my throat cut’.
In fact I would venture to say that my self awareness increases but self changes. If it makes any sense.