I don't equate intelligence as something where dominants have sole or superior claim...just look around at all the smart(assed, lol) submissives here.

I don't see honorifics as necessary, because I think that which is given easily isn't very valuable and carries little meaning. When I address someone as sir (other than in jest) or master it has a deeper meaning....but thats just me.

As for other people. I don't particularly care either way, but I do sometimes find posts with all the little "i" and "W/we" and no punctuations exasperating because they are difficult to read.

I myself am strong personality, so strong personalities are a huge turn on. I have little interest in someone who is weaker than myself.