wow. let me tell you thats a topic i didn't expect to come up. but i tend to agree. when one takes the time to do things right in typing, it's seen as a disiplined person and who better to deal with unruly submissives than a person who is self disiplined.
as to your questions
1. i do not equate good dictation with dominance unless it's dealing with one self. as i've talked with many a submissive who could type better than i do. i generally type in lower case as to help speed my typing since stretching my finger to hit the shift key often results in me moving my entire hand which cause me to type(talk) in jibberish. i prefer accuracy in interpetation of what i meant instead of what the letter of what i've typed. if that actually makes sense.
2.i see honorifics in 2 aspects. respect that is earned by personality, integrity and action, and respect for the position that one holds. a lot of this comes from the military where there is supposed to be respect for the position(rank) that one has earned. but all in all i prefer to give honorifics to people automatically and politely till people prove to me they haven't earned the right by way of actions.
3. as for a strong personality as a turn on. no i don't think it's a turn on for me. unless it's the type of personality that just speaks to people with out saying a word. that sense of self, of women who carry an aire of submissive that can enter a room and immidieatly cause all those in the room to adore her for her submissiveness without saying or doing a thing. now thats just talent and beautiful to behold.
i do like the simplicity of diablos answers. but there are always the gray areas(the exception to the rule) that one must always be prepared for, like some who look for the beauty queen and wind up falling in love with the plain jane.