Ok, well, he basically told me hes leaving it TOTALLY up to me. He also said he likes dressing in womens clothing and that he was going to get a wig that was going to have to be trimmed. So, i dont know if that tells you anything or not. BUt, he said hes definately going to save my number and call me when times gets closer...he also sounded kinda FRUITY...you know that voice that ultimately SCREAMS at you "GAY"....Im thinking hes MORE then likely a sub but we'll find out.... THANK YOU!!!!!!!!!!!!!!