Without trust and respect there is no relationship to begin with.

I don't know you or your man, so I can't judge weather or not you should be conserned, yet, the fact that you are asking us in the first place speaks volumes as to weather you think it should be.

Better to find out now than wait and become another victum of a BS artist.

The dominant that wants to fool around on the side should lay that on the table up front or stay out of the game.

Taking responsibility for the life of another human being is nothing casual.