Quote Originally Posted by SimonsKat View Post
how does everyone else handle the distance? are you and your Dom/Domme Master/Mistress or sub/slave going to be Real Life one day? How do you help the other deal with their emotions?
One, i am sorry you are going through this.

Two, i am single right now but i do remember a time when i was with someone whom i loved very much. He wasnt as far as your Master is but he was 44 hrs away from me by car. The distance killed me. We did plan to meet each other, but things went south. He was completely fine with the distance, he told me that he knows he wil see me one day, and that we will have a future together. So i didnt really have to deal with his emotions he had to deal with mine. Which at times can be VERY hard. The way i dealt with the distance was wrong. I pushed him away *the reason we went south*, which i dont know if that had to do with how young i am (24) or if it was me just being scared that I may not live up to his standards. I am in no way saying you should push him away, im just telling you how i dealt with my emotions. He knew that it was me pushing him away because of the distance and he was patient, very patient, but you can only push someone so far, until they fall off the cliff. I have since started to work on not pushing people way that are close to me on the internet just becuase of distance.

Moving from USA to Italy is ...*eyes wide* a lot to deal with. Thats not just a 'hey lets move from Texas to Washington!' , but if you yourself feel like its a good idea, the heck go for it. Good luck!