What Ozme said!!! Remember what your Mom used to say, "Anything worth having is worth working hard for AND worth waiting for!!!" And just to put my two cents worth in, i have found that the harder you *look* the less you see. Personally, i decided awhile ago to be myself, get to know those around me, let them get to know the *real* me, make good friends along the way, and one day......one day......i'll meet Him........or maybe i already know Him and just don't know it yet! LOLOL

Everything happens for a reason and i know that when the time is right.......what's meant to be will be *smiles* Now........if you can get past the MONTHS and MONTHS of cold showers, troll wading, and wanting to whine to all your friends about how long it's taking, think of how much patience you will have learned!!!!!! (and trust me.......patience was/is NOT one of my strong suits!!!) *giggling*

Best advice i can give is don't miss out on all the lovely people that are around you because you have tunnel vision for the "ONE".......Take the time to make great friends of like minds and soak up all the knowledge they have to offer. When you do meet Him, you will be much more prepared for the experience!