I think many of us have had this feeling, step back and ask yourself...is it this Dom you are interested in or is it the fantasy? Do you get excited because he e-mailed you or because a Dom is showing interest?

For me, the fact that he won't tell you anything about himself would be a red flag. This is all new and exciting to you, it wasn't all that long ago I felt the same way, and I'm sure you have feelings of "I want it and I want it now!" but in reality this is not likely to be the best way to find what you really need, possibly unsafe, possibly a quick fix, but not likely to turn into the D/s relationship that you are really seeking.

What you are likely feeling is what is referred to as sub frenzy.

Have fun but please be careful.


SUB FRENZY

Added by Tiger, 08-29-2008 02:35 AM
Colloquial A very strong, sometimes overwhelming, desire to find a dominant partner or to become immersed in BDSM-related activities, sometimes seen in people who identify strongly as submissive, particularly peope who have either just newly discovered their submissive side or who have not partaken in BDSM-related activities for a long time. People in the grip of sub frenzy may sometimes make unwise or unsafe choices.