Performing oral on a girl is definitely a form of control and in no way diminishes my Domliness. I can make her cum at any time, or make her wait, and wait, and wait. I love to make a girl cum until her body just gives out completely, and then take My pleasure in other devious, twisted, and perverted ways while she lays there only moderately conscious (consensually of course), only to start again when she recovers enough to begin forming coherent thoughts. A most pleasant way to pass the weekend.