< reads the post by Daddy54 and replaces My eyeballs... very, very hard to read when all the words are capitalized >

On that note ...

Every relationship requires a different approach.

If a girl is a pain slut, a thousand lashes with a whip will not change her behavior. If she gets off on humiliation, putting her in the corner the next time company comes over probably won't have any effect. If a girl is not allowed on the computer, she'll be elsewhere doing something else she probably enjoys. Putting her in the corner all alone to think about what she has done ... after 30 seconds she's going over next weeks grocery list and waiting for her time to be up.

Over the years I've found that the best punishments have always been the most subtle. Looking her in the eye and stating in a firm voice 'you have disappointed Me greatly' is amazingly powerful. Saying 'get out of My sight' is enough to cause a potentially serious mental meltdown in a girl if you have any sort of deep connection with her at all.

Here's an idea: Choose and train the girl properly in the first place. Keep your expectations reasonable. Take circumstance into consideration. Replace punishment with discipline and further training to truly change a behavior or correct a failure.

If a girl is constantly failing and constantly needs punishment, who is the one that is really at fault?