I wanted to say hi toevreyone. I just started visiting this site recently and saw this article. I agree with it can't be overused. I am almost always in a state of frustration and need for an orgasm. My Master does not let me play with my self or cum with out his approval. When I am being punished for something it is usually followed up by a few days of intense denial.
It is a good way to keep a sub on mind of what she (or he) did wrong and to hel reinforce the punihsment from before. But beside that I think Orgasm Deprivation is a very powerful reminder of who is the Master/Mistress and who is the sub.
I know some of this has already been said... but its my little two cents.
- keera -