crime for punishment

[openlyrefined]

I am wondering where is the responsable dominant seeking his own help instead of sending his subbie in to find the answers for him?

I often look online for my Sir as He has more important things to do. I find it an easy way to please him & saves more of his time for *me*

Of course sometimes I wish he would do the research himself, but for something like this, it's not my place to
question him on such trivial issues

I ask the questions & he reads the responses. This is an arrangement that seems to work for us & perhaps for ickleimi too?


As for crime & punnishment,

My dom has requested I post this in here to ask on your typical crime and punishment for your subs.

What is it they did? What did you do? How did you chose?

I am frequently late. One thing we have found quite effective (as I hate pain) is 1 spank/paddle/etc of his choice for every minute I am late.

also, I often forget things and, as mentioned above, one of the worst punnishments is when my Dom voices his disappointment. There is nothing that can make me feel worse than knowing I have let Him down & have not served Him fully to his expectations. This could also result in a beating, or the silent treatment (I hate this onee to!) depending on what it was that I forgot.